The View From My Knees

Today in the chat room Alphaboy asked my advice on a little problem he’s having with his girlfriend and I thought I’d share our conversation with all of you. I’m sure we’d both love to hear from any of you that have advice or experience with this issue, so leave your comments below.

Alphaboy: hmmm… are you available to give out some advice?
MistyKaye: always
Alphaboy: great
Alphaboy: well… I’ll probably just sound like some ‘typical guy’ here, which I most certainly think I’m not…
Alphaboy: but… I have a girlfriend, and everything is fantastic, apart from… I would like to get more head
MistyKaye: Does she do it at all?
Alphaboy: very, very occasionally
MistyKaye: Have you told her you want it more?
Alphaboy: well, I have brought it up, but not as a serious topic
Alphaboy: I don’t really want to make it a serious issue
MistyKaye: What happens when you bring it up? Does she have a problem with giving head?
Alphaboy: she just says she doesn’t really like it
Alphaboy: and I never push the issue, so it sort of just ends there
MistyKaye: hm
MistyKaye: It would be helpful to find out what she doesn’t like about it
Alphaboy: yeah
MistyKaye: If it’s because she doesn’t get any physical pleasure out of it, there’s always 69.
Alphaboy: that’s true
Alphaboy: and I should add that I go down on her, a lot
MistyKaye: Or a fun game would be to get a pair of those remote controlled panties (pricey, but fun) and every time she’s making your cock feel really good you give her a buzz with the remote
MistyKaye: I just thought of that and it’s making me kinda horny just thinking about it!
Alphaboy: damn that does sound like a fun game
Alphaboy: actually made me a little hard thinking about it! haha
MistyKaye: Experimenting with flavored lubes and stuff could be fun, too
MistyKaye: (and would help if taste is an issue she is concerned about)
Alphaboy: has taste ever been an issue for you giving head?
MistyKaye: not that I can remember
Alphaboy: I thought if it was something like taste, she would have told me
Alphaboy: maybe it needs to be asked directly, I don’t know
MistyKaye: Yeah, I think communication is the first step to solving this problem
Alphaboy: I feel like a bit of a dick for bringing it up tho, you know?
Alphaboy: like I’m just some typical guy that wants his dick sucked
MistyKaye: If you get your point across as “it’s so hot when you give me head and it feels so good” as opposed to “you don’t do this enough for me” it would be better
MistyKaye: It can be a stretch, but trying to make it more about her than you helps. Like how good she is at it, how sexy she looks while she’s doing it, etc.
Alphaboy: hmmm that’s true
Alphaboy: and god it is so so sexy watching her with her lips wrapped around my cock
MistyKaye: yup, it’s a nice image
Alphaboy: do girls get the same sort of thrill looking down at a guy like that?
MistyKaye: Sometimes
Alphaboy: that remote controlled panties idea is still in my head lol
MistyKaye: hehe, I like it, too!
MistyKaye: I might have to go pick up a new pair
Alphaboy: would be a fine balance though.. too much pleasure for her, not enough cock sucking… haha
Alphaboy: oh ok, well thanks for the advice Misty, I really appreciate it